I spent my high school career obsessing over the girl I liked in high school.  She didn’t like me back.  I think I was the most hurt when I tried to make myself believe she liked me.  So goes with God.  When you are a Christian you are forced to believe God loves you.  This is abelist.  People with depression are going to look for this “love” and not find it and it’s going to make them more depressed.  They would be better off not believing it in the first place.