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Friendship Degradation

The thing I found online pertaining to ADHD (which I almost certainly have) is there isn't this thing called friendship degradation. We pick up on a friendship at the point we left off regardless of how much time has passed. For me that also means obsessing over close...

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Communication

Great post on communication for those of us on the autistic spectrum. People have accused me of being too direct which I believe is fine but NT's don't.

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Autistic Burnout

From an NYTimes article on Autistic burnout: Autistic adults are also more likely to feel suicidal; a 2018 study published in Molecular Autism found that 72 percent of autistic adults scored highly for suicide risk, compared to 33 percent of the general population....

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spaces

For me being someone far from privilege I think it is so important to find spaces that are actually meritocratic (in my case making family videos and writing poetry) because the general world prejudice is going to rule.

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Interpret

From 6 Ways To Be A Better Friend To A Disabled Person: It may sometimes seem like disabled people make awkward situations worse by always interpreting people’s words and actions negatively. It may be tempting to think that you can improve a disabled friend or...

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Capstone Feelings

People don't realize I no longer much have that feeling where I have good feelings to cap off something challenging I did. For example I don't have that clean feeling after taking a shower. And when I do hard volunteer work I often don't have the feeling of...

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learning things the hard way

People don't understand that if you don't teach the unwritten rules people (especially those of us on the spectrum) are going to learn them the hard way. The more of a struggle learning something the more you retain and obsess over it. If someone had gently told me...

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